| Why do some girls attract all the guys? Because they | | | | verbal proportion is accomplished by the words |
| are power flirts. You can master this fine art - no | | | | themselves. The rest is all about how you say it. |
| cosmetic surgery required. You just need to let your | | | | So watch what your body is saying. Researchers say |
| body do the talking. Turn up the volume on your inner | | | | you can heighten your powers of attraction by about |
| flirt! | | | | 70 per cent if you can improve your body talk. |
| Every time my friend Jenny enters a room, men get | | | | Love your body |
| social whiplash. She is not breathtakingly beautiful; she | | | | Learn to love your body and this will be reflected in |
| is no rhodes scholar and she hasn't won the lottery. | | | | your body talk. A lot of women walk around |
| But Jenny never leaves a party without being caught | | | | apologizing for themselves, subconsciously using |
| in a social scrum by all the single men. What is the | | | | 'concealment gestures' to obscure the parts of their |
| secret behind her mesmerizing effect on males? She | | | | bodies they don't like with their hands or arms. But that |
| is simply one of the world's best flirts. | | | | only makes these body parts more intriguing to others |
| I'm sure you know someone like Jenny. It seems unfair | | | | and makes her seem under-confident. |
| but these women appear to operate a dating cartel. | | | | Watch yourself and see if you are covering parts of |
| Fact is, they don't have a monopoly on power flirting. | | | | yourself when you move. Are you fidgeting? Tugging |
| We can all do it. We just need to learn the secrets | | | | at your hemline? Constantly rearranging your attire or |
| behind their 100-watt smiles. | | | | jiggling your feet? Then don't. Start re-learning how to |
| To some women, flirting comes naturally and for | | | | move. Use open gestures when you walk, don't set up |
| others, we must coax our latent talents to life. The | | | | physical barriers and don't cover up. Most importantly, |
| good news? The ability to flirt is innate. It is about | | | | look enthusiastic and animated. Animated people are |
| confidence and being able to sensually inhabit your | | | | attractive. And smile. A smile is your passport to |
| body. The other key is understanding body language. | | | | popularity. It invites the world in and makes you more |
| Women are always worrying about what they say | | | | accessible and chat-up-able. Coach yourself to love |
| but in fact it's our bodies that do most of the talking. | | | | your body and instead of trying to cover up the parts |
| Communication is 60 per cent non-verbal and only 40 | | | | you are less happy with, flaunt the parts that you like. |
| per cent verbal. More than this, only a quarter of the | | | | |